Buddhism often distinguishes between the experience of true happiness and regular happiness. The following are a few key differences that I have noted with their long term effects:
Spiritual/True happiness | Regular/Ordinary happiness |
1. It is experienced regardless of desire fulfillment or during a pleasurable activity | It is experienced primarily during desire fulfillment or during a pleasurable activity |
2. Gratitude is always present | Gratitude comes on fulfillment of material desire |
3. Leads to opening of new doors, application of LOA and expansion of life force, self discovery | Leads to no such thing |
4. Empathy/compassion rises | Not necessarily |
5. Absolute and long lasting | Relative and short lived |
6. Leads to decrease in fear due to systematic desensitization arising from a desire to feel happy | One’s fears may stay with him/her |
7. Makes you want to focus on the present and forget the past even more | No such inclination to move ahead |